Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Completing a Month of Epic Hospitality



MCC SALTers at Teri-Lynn's house where we stopped for lunch on the way to Bujumbura.


If 50% of our job as country reps is travel, then I would have to say that the other 90% is hosting guests.  Not that we mind too much.  The Bible says that hospitality is a spiritual gift so maybe we are just really blessed.  In the past 3 weeks we have hosted a continuous number of people starting with Zachee and Bridget two weeks ago but continuing even up to today.

I will back up and try to fill in some of the details.  Zachee and Bridget left last Sunday morning to return to Canada, and on Monday I also left the country for Kigali by car.  I went with Felix to meet some partners and the host families of our SALTers to take care of various bits of business.  I was there for several days and during that time I had a chance to do some social visiting with host parents who are all affiliated with the friends church as well as some of the missionaries there, particularly Dave and Debbie Thomas who have been living and working in Rwanda for the last 17 years, I believe.

I also had the chance to go on a field visit to one of our projects.  It was a training for a number of rural agricultural groups on how to do savings together with the Village Savings and Loan model.  It has been amazing to see this very effective program transform communities as people pool their resources then lend to each other (with interest) and eventually raise enough capital to buy everyone a cow, for instance, or other asset.

Although the training was in Kinyarwanda, I could understand what was going on well enough and was encouraged by the work I saw there.

Matt & Bash
I saw our volunteers as well and when we left I took our two SALTers, Alyssa and Janelle with me and Matt Gates, our agronomist followed us in his car (with his new puppy “Bash” in tow.)  I stopped by Burasira on the way back to Bujumbura and picked up Terri-Lynn as well.  She had just finished doing mid-term exams in all her classes as the school prepares for a two week Easter break.

The reason we were all convoying down to Bujumbura was to have a team gathering to discuss MCC values and how they apply to the work we are doing in our assignments.  It is a once yearly activity that MCC expects us to do.  But although it might sound a bit redundant, it is actually very interesting to consider each year.

The trip was a bit rough as we were delayed by an hour at the border because when I bought the SALTers visas, the immigration officer did not have the $20 change I was supposed to get back.  It literally to an hour of waiting for him to return with money for change.  We sat at the border the whole time waiting for the problem to be solved and frustrated that he would not give change in local currency despite our request for him to do so.  Eventually we were able to leave only to come upon an accident (truck went over a steep embankment) later on the road that took another 30 minutes to clear.

When we arrived in Bujumbura, we found Melody and Yolanda were already down from Gitega and were helping Rebecca set up for dinner and prepare materials for the meetings.

Matt was the last to arrive, but by Thursday evening we were all together for dinner and shared fajitas and enjoyed visiting.

We ended our evening with worship following an Anabaptist Lenten liturgy leading up to Holy week.  Everyone seemed very pleased to be together and we had the 4 Rwanda folks in our house while Melody and Yolanda stayed with Jennifer (who lives about 2 blocks away.)

On Friday morning we took the kids to school in the morning and then began meeting in earnest beginning with worship and a time of sharing what we do in our work and the things that have encouraged us in the last few months.

We began our values discussion after that and followed a form which identifies 8 values of MCC that are expected to be evident in our programming, but also modeled in our individual lives.

It struck me that this is something that one either loves or hates about MCC.  There is an expectation, in fact a requirement that those working for the organization model the values that we exhibit programmatically.  I could imagine some that would consider that perhaps overbearing, even invasive, but I think it is one of the things that makes our organization unique from so many other NGO’s doing development work. 

It is not just a matter of being Christian either.  There are many here working as Christians in Christians organizations.  It is how our faith expresses itself in particular ways regarding, service, justice, and standing with the poor and marginalized.

Here are the values we discussed:

Yolanda
Relationships—This has to do with the way we treat each other and our partners.  We realize that relationships are the key building blocks of our programming, but do presume a certain level of accountability with regard to the completion of the work we are trying to do.

Learning—This recognizes that we are a learning organization and we have as much to receive from our local partners as we have to give.  It presumes that we are not the experts coming in, but we depend on partners and beneficiaries to help us shape priorities in our programming. 

Flexibility—This connects to the idea of learning and reminds us that we must rely on others (local advisory counsels and partners) to help understand the context and direct our programs.

Solidarity—This reminds us that we need to attempt to immerse ourselves in the culture through language study, and lifestyles compatible with those we serve and to particularly understand issues of injustice in our context and be responsible to our privileges.

Non-violence—This is the Anabaptist commitment to non-violent methods in resolving conflict, especially in confronting injustices.

Servanthood—We must behave with humility in relating to others, be accountable, both in terms of integrity but also procedurally, and we should be aware of the informal power relationships that may privilege us above others and not abuse them.

Collaborative Decision Making—Mcc is not autocratic and there is an expectation that decision making will involve all stake holders.  Time will be taken to give all a voice.

Involvement with the church—MCC does recognize the church as the most significant agent of transformation in the world.  We are expected to be accountable individually and programmatically to a local church in our context.

As I said, above, you may react positively or negatively to the idea that your employer is holding you accountable to both uphold and practice its values.  For me, I appreciate the challenge more and more as I spend more time in MCC.

We had many discussions, some bordering on debates as we worked through these values and ended by creating a series of action points for the coming year to improve our track record on these things.

We worked all day Friday and Saturday, but did have time for games in the evenings.  Actually on Friday afternoon I taught my ballet classes as usual and appreciated having all 3 SALTers join the adult class in the evening.  Teri-Lynn has come before, but it was the first time for Janelle and Alyssa.  

On Sunday we had some worship time together then headed to the beach for the afternoon.  It was a beautiful day and we tried a new place called Jenny’s Beach, which is a nice cafĂ© with very attractive gazebos out in the sand where you can order food an beverages.  It features many salads and fruit drinks that our just perfect for the beach.  In general I would give it a favorable review except the service was quite slow (an hour and a half from ordering to receiving food.)   

The kids enjoyed swimming in the lake as did most of our team and we stayed there until early evening.  When we returned, we had a Birthday party for Matt Gates for which Jennifer and Rebecca made a fabulous chocolate cake.  (using a Betty Crocker mix!)

Monday morning the kids were back in school and we managed to get our whole team out of the house and on to the road.   I gave them an 11 am check-out time because we were expecting another set of guests by 2pm.

The transition promised to be hard because one of our house staff was sick, so we all pitched in to get the house cleaned, all the beds remade, and the kitchen restocked and ready for the next set of guests.

Mark Sprunger, our area director, arrived with Tim Lind the MCC Congo rep. and Michael Sharp, the MCC Eastern Congo coordinator from Bukavu by 3pm that afternoon.  The timing was perfect for us as we had just finished getting the house back in order.

They are here for a subregional MCC Great Lakes discussion.  Our country programs have much to talk about and coordinate.  For anyone following the conflict in the Great Lakes region, you could imagine the issues that might come up between representatives representing Rwanda and those representing Eastern Congo in our organization, especially as we try to help clarify advocacy positions for our organization.  In truth though, it is really good to be together and discuss our region with them and share stories about the radically different perceptions of the conflict from our Congolese and Rwandese partners.

We had dinner together at Ubuntu restaurant on our first evening together, then met at our house all day Tuesday.

We will be done with all meetings and hosting this coming Thursday, just in time for Easter and two weeks of Spring break.  We are trying to decide what would be relaxing to do and give us time to make some much needed time with our kids.  At this time staying home alone as a family and repainting the porch has the greatest appeal.

For more photos of our team gathering, you can check out this link.  MCC Team Gathering  

  

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