
On the good side, I really prefer to go outside before and after a flight, because it gives me a chance to see the plane, smell the jet fuel, and feel the weather when I come and go. I am becoming very aware of how much time we spend in climate controlled conditions in the USA. That is quite a contrast to Burundi where we live in open air houses and feel the changes in weather constantly. We have to get used to the smells as well. Sadly Bujumbura smells vaguely like burning to me at all times. That is probably due to the fact that everyone has to burn all of their garbage at their homes, since there is no municipal trash collection. (For anyone who hates paying taxes, you should spend a few weeks in a city where you don’t have to. Find out what you lack,--schools, ambulances, fire trucks, garbage collection, playgrounds, parks, trustworthy police, safe drinking water, a house without an 8 foot wall around it topped with embedded broken glass.)

Femmes en Dialogue brings together women who were victims of the 1994 genocide, (widowed, children killed, attacked themselves) with women whose husbands are currently incarcerated for committing crimes against humanity by participating in the genocide. Cecille shared some dramatic stories about women who have met and have supported each other in the group even though, in some cases, the husband of one was the murderer of the other’s family. She has witnessed some tremendous acts of reconciliation and healing. Women have forgiven each other, as well as the incarcerated men. Widowed women have also been able to identify with the plight of those whose husbands are imprisoned and left devastated by guilt and loss of livelihood.
Cecille is well qualified to be doing this work and her passion for it comes from firsthand experience. She was very young and just married in a mixed ethnic marriage when the crisis erupted. (She is tutsi, her husband is hutu.) When the hutu’s were killing tutsi’s in Kigali, her husband protected and hid her and their children. They all survived the massacre (although not her extended family). The story does not end there though, her husband was later captured and accused of crimes against humanity himself and is currently incarcerated where he has been for the past 14 years, awaiting a hearing on whether he will ever be released. She is a courageous woman and I have great respect for her work and hope for the future. Her ministry is definitely inspired by her unique dual perspective on the tragedy of the events of 1994. I also see in her a confidence in a Lord who will someday ‘turn her mourning into dancing’.

The time was not all work though. There was opportunity for sight seeing and shopping as well. One of the things I bought was a new Djembe (Ghanaian drum) to replace the one I had had stolen when I was in Chicago earlier this year. I bought the biggest one I could find, and it cost about $35 with the bag! It is really nice and survived the trip back to Bujumbura without a problem! Here is a picture of the store where I bought it in downtown Accra. Notice the store is called In God We Trust. Many of the businesses had names expressing religious sentiments. I had less trouble with that one than He Has Made All Things Beautiful Fashion Boutique and the pious Jesus Above All Liquor Store.
Among the sights we saw were two slave castles along the coast.

(Ironically, the children of these unions were separated and given education at the castles which later evolved into the Ghanaian formal education system after slavery ended.)

I got back to Burundi on Friday morning and got home to find the house still intact. It is good to be back but it is still lonely without Oren and Rebecca. I was able to talk to them frequently on Skype. They are doing well in Baltimore. Oren started preschool and really seems to like it. He has said some things about missing Burundi as well, so I think he will be ready to come back when we do. Rebecca is doing well with the pregnancy. She told me she misses work in the field almost as much as I miss caring for Oren in my free time.
I did read a book recently called The Shack on my flight. It was interesting and wrestles with the problem of suffering. I am currently reading a book called Africa Works about the failure of institutions and the state in sub-Saharan Africa. Not light reading.
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