Thursday, December 27, 2012

Christmas 2012: Creative Offerings and an Amazing Gift


David attempting to raid the Christmas cookie jar.  The higher we put it, the more precarious his attempts became.



Usually I can write this blog in a way that focuses more on importance rather than chronology.  This week, however, amazing and unusual events came as such an onslaught that I am hard pressed to know where to begin. 

This was the last week of Advent and the kids were in school Monday through Friday.  It was a bit of a challenge at work as we limped toward the end of the year on borrowed computers.  But we did manage to get last minute emails written about planning for next year’s programming.  

Things started to get interesting fairly early as visitors and guests started to arrive as early as Tuesday.  Teri-Lynn our SALTer at the Hope School was down all week and it was interesting to talk to her about how teaching was going.  She told us about the rewards and challenges (sense of isolation being high on the list.)  She also talked about different cultural perceptions of teaching.  I was fascinated to hear how some of her colleagues advised her that-- “The teacher should always be the last to arrive in the class and the first to leave.”  It is so interesting how this is exactly the opposite of what we are taught. 

The perception here is that the teacher is the most important person in the classroom and is accorded a place of very high respect. In our culture education is focused on the student with the teacher playing more of a facilitator role.  The Hope School would like to be more of a child-centered-learning school, but it is clear from the perception of some of the teachers that they have a ways to go.

Teri-Lynn was down several days before the arrival of her parents who came on Thursday afternoon.  Teri-Lynn surprised them at the airport as they were not expecting her to be down in Buja on that day.  They spent the night at our house and then Teri-Lynn took them on a tour of her home upcountry.  They rented a car and driver on my recommendation to help them get around.

Things did not go exactly according to plan as she had planned with her cook to have an elaborate Christmas dinner planned while they were up there to welcome them.  When they arrived, the cook was completely AWOL and never showed up the whole 3 days they were there. 

Unfortunately the trip continued to get worse when they returned Sunday in a rain storm and the driver, who was speeding drove off the road into a ditch on the mountain side of the escarpment they were descending.  They were quite livid about his recklessness and after they were pushed out her dad took the wheel and drove home. 

There were several very tense minutes when she was trying to call us on her cell phone to tell us what was happening.  The site of the accident had terrible reception and the phone kept cutting out everytime she tried to tell us what had happened and how they were.  We finally got the story and just when I was preparing to get in my car and rescue them we got a message that some folks in the vicinity and hoisted them out of the ditch and they were on their way down.

They arrived just in time for our Christmas party on Sunday afternoon, but I will come back to that in a minute.

Yolanda, Melody, Jennifer, and Michael Sharp all
passed through Bujumbura this weekend.
Friday was a fairly busy day with expected and unexpected guests.  Melody and Yolanda arrived in town, and after school we offered to take Janet Miller’s 4 kids home as they had an unexpectedly long graduation to attend at the University.  (They are an American family with 4 kids (husband and wife are both physicians) who are serving at a clinic run by the Free Methodist Church and teaching at Hope Africa University.) 

I taught ballet that day and spent some extra time rehearsing a piece for our Christmas Party.

Saturday was a big day of preparation.  After exercise Oren and I set to work on a fantastic gingerbread house.  He was to be the architect and used his magnet blocks to build a church with a high-peeked roof, a bell tower and a smaller gabled roof.  Once he built it with magnet blocks, Rebecca made dough and I laid out pieces on the dough we rolled out and set in cookie sheets.  It took 3 trays but we baked all the pieces.  We learned an excellent gluing technique using  melted sugar which we dipped the edges of pieces in.  It hardened like epoxy, very quickly.  I also used a cheese grater as sand paper so we had very square pieces.  I also made the royal icing to stick the candy into on the roofs.  (powdered sugar and egg white.) 

Once it was completely built and stuck together, Oren and David decorated it.  It really looked quite fabulous, and was the centerpiece at our Christmas party.

Sunday was the actual day of our Christmas party.  (December 23rd)  We had been planning this for a while and were calling it a Christmas Dance and Offering of the Arts.  People were asked to bring a song, dance, piece of visual art, or some specialty food or tradition from their culture to share. 

We had a very large group as usual and after most had arrived we had a time of sharing.  Rebecca had organized a group of us to sing some acapella Christmas carols, one of our friends, a teacher at the Ecole Belge performed a flute solo.  We had several families show off some of their specialty foods, Oren showed his gingerbread church, (which every kid ooohed and aaahed and said how beautiful it was and asked if they could eat it immediately).

There was some handicraft and toward the end I performed a short dance I had created for Christmas.  I will try to mount it on the bottom of the blog.

We ended the offering of the arts with a sing-along to the Hallelujah chorus.  (We did print out sheet music.)

After that we went right into the dancing and did some old favorites including Cotton-Eyed Joe and the Virginia Reel.  What really impressed me was the number of kids this time who joined in.  We had several squares of kids in one dance, and Oren was my partner in the Virginia Reel, which he really loved.

From MCC, Jennifer, Yolanda and Melody were all in town.  Michael Sharp had also been there the day before and they had gone out together, although by Sunday he was on his way to Kampala with friends for a vacation.

It was a really fun party and we ended it with a potluck.  Since we began about 3pm everyone was gone by 8 except for a few who stayed around and gave us a hand cleaning up.  We did end by singing a couple Christmas carols and Silent Night in the language of everyone represented there.  It was great to share this event with our friends here.  Rebecca and I even decided that we will try to do three of these events per year with the offering of the arts as part of it from now on.

Monday was the first day the kids had off so we were not really able to do any work.  I did do a bit of Christmas shopping and we wrapped some presents for each other and others we were going to give.  Melody, Yolanda and Jennifer was around as well.  Rebecca did practice the piano some for the evening event we planned to attend.

We were very excited to be going to a Christmas Eve service at Joel and Janet Miller’s house.  Oren and David really like their 4 kids and were happy to see them twice in 3 days. 

Despite the loss of two computers, the returns of the Holiday Season had been happy indeed and we were looking forward to sharing this evening with friends in a Lessons and Carols Service.

What I was not expecting to receive was a call, on the way to the service, from a friend who is a missionary who works with street kids, calling to tell me that someone in the thieves network had contacted him with a White Macbook to sell.  (Apparently they found it fairly useless without the powercord.)  He told me to come out and meet him immediately.  It was a bit awkward as I had to borrow Jennifer’s car but the place he was parked was enroute to the party.  I met him and was able to buy back my macbook from him after he bought it off a thief. 

 I could not believe I had gotten one back, although there had been some people praying for just this, that we would recover at least one by Christmas. 

I walked triumphantly into the Miller’s house brandishing the computer.   We had a lovely Lessons and Carols service with Rebecca playing the keyboard competently for the songs we sung and some very creative dramatic staging and readings for the service.  We ended by singing Silent Night by candlelight.

We returned home and the kids fell asleep in the car on the way home.  I did some inspection of the computer and found it was working well and really had not been used very much at all (because the battery died).

We did Skype our families to tell them the good news.  At this time we are still holding out some hope that the other will be returned as well, particularly since it is password locked and may not be that useable either.

The kids were up early on Tuesday for Christmas. We had a very modest Christmas this year since we did not have visitors from the States.  The featured toys were two wooden tow trucks that we got at the Marche de Noel the week prior.  

As an aside I would add that they will probably receive a few more gifts in the mail.  A parcel with their Chocolate filled Advent calendars still has not arrived.  So they will be able to enjoy that in February probably.  In the same vein, we did get a parcel for our SALTer Janelle on the 22nd.  Just in time for Christmas.  Unfortunately it was not for the Janelle who is a SALTer this year, but Janelle Tupper who was our SALTer last year.  Her Grandmother sent it to her in November of 2011 and it just got to Burundi on Dec 22, 2012!   We told Janelle about it and she said to go ahead and open it as it might be food that would not be good anyway.  (She is currently back in Washington DC).
We did open it and it would definitely qualify as one of the best gifts for naughty children, probably even better than coal or switches.  Apparently cookie dough packed in a tin had exploded enroute making the address hard to read.  You can imagine how rancid that was. It was on everything including some dried fruit, other cookies, mixed nuts (which tasted OK) and some fiber bars.  The look and smell in the box were really quite dreadful.  I think it must set some kind of record for belatedness though.

The kids had fun with them as well as with a lego kit and a new Magic Schoolbus Video.  We spent the morning playing games with the kids and watching the new videos.

Sadly Oren started spiking a fever by mid-morning and it was obvious he was coming down with a virus.  Nonetheless, we did go to a final Christmas dinner at the Kings Conference Center hosted by Simon Guillebaud.  Many of the same folks were there who had been at the two previous parties so it was one more chance for all of our kids to play together.  Actually, after the delicious buffet meal we had the kids watch a movie while the adults set up several games of ‘speed scrabble.’  (or bananagrams.)

We went back home and by mid afternoon Oren’s fever was up again.  We did a malaria test (negative) that evening and gave him more aspirin.  Before bed we began packing for our trip the next day.  We are going with Tim and Jeanette Van Aarde to Uganda for a week vacation at Lake Bunyoni.

This final post of 2012 is being sent from Kigali where we have stopped for the night enroute to Uganda.  More in the New Year!




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